MIL collects my DDs from school 3 days a week whilst I work, for which I am very grateful. However, we don't always see eye to eye (some of you may remember the holiday thread ) and food is a big area where we definitely don't see eye to eye.
She brings them back to my house and I always try to ensure there is a reasonably healthy meal that she can rustle up for them, but invariably I come home to empty crisp packets, empty biscuit packets etc and MIL saying "They didn't want their dinner dear, they are naughty". "Well why the f**k do you think that is, eh?, any ideas??"
I don't say that obviously, but very very tempting some days
So, I decide to clear the house of any junk, hide it all away, leaving just dinner, yoghurts and fruit. My DDs are allowed these things but I limit it and it has to be after a decent meal.
Yesterday I arrived home to find they had devoured an entire packet of biscuits that MIL had brought from home . "They didn't eat too well my dear, they really don't eat fruit like they used to". OBVIOUSLY NOT WHEN THERE IS A BLOODY PACKET OF BISCUITS THERE, YOU SILLY SILLY OLD MARE. Sorry, deep breaths, deep breaths.
She's not a stupid woman, so why oh why doesn't she "get" this. I know she thinks I'm really odd to not have endless cakes and biscuits at the kids' disposal. DH is about as much use as a chocolate teapot - he thinks I'm too anal about the girls' diet and I should just let it go on the 3 days when his mum picks them up, but that is almost half the week when she is feeding them shite, and it angers me that she just ignores my wishes. They're 5 years old and when faced with no choice except fruit they eat tons of it after dinner. I don't want them eating cakes and biscuits instead .
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Why does MIL insit on filling my kids up with shite when she knows my views on it?
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sandyballs · 05/10/2006 13:08
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