Coping with my misscarriage

[Proudmummyofone]

Okay so this is really hard for me, but I recently went through a misscarriage and although I didn't want to be pregnant in the first place, it has really affected me. My copper coil unfortunately came out without my knowing and I went to the doctors ASAP, I was told I was pregnant then two weeks later I have a heavy kind of period. I told my boyfriend and he was very angry and confused, I explained the situation and he now won't speak to me, I'm wondering why and if he has been put off me, I feel so worthless and unwomenly, please help

[quoteunquote]

your boyfriend is an immature idiot,

What a hideous way to respond to you,

I would count yourself luck you found out what a twonk he is before waste anymore time with him,

He has probably decided you getting pregnant was deliberate, and is angry,

I hope he uses condoms if he has sex in the future, if he is so anti being a parent, either that or have the snip.

He is only concerned about himself and clear does not give a jot about you, sorry you had to meet one of the horrid ones,

take the hint, if he is not speaking to you, move on.

[Proudmummyofone]

I just felt like he used it an as easy excuse to get out of the relationship. I would never get pregnant deliberately, of course I had the coil in but I never knew it could just fall out like that with

[Proudmummyofone]

Out my knowing so.. He hasn't spoken to me for over a week now and not come to see me. He doesn't act the slightest bit affected and seems to be the happiest I've seen him. Maybe he's happy at my suffering?

[thebody]

sweetheart if you had posted this on aibu you would probably have had 200 posters telling you he's a stupid worthless bastard and you deserve much much better.

so sorry about your loss. it's very hard to deal with this and the fact that you weren't planning to get pregnant doesn't actually make it easier. it's still a shock.

please however take one small positive step from this and dump the twat oh and have some and

[eurochick]

I agree. And would add that the miscarriage board on here under body and soul can be a very helpful and supportive place.