DH is a teacher who started a new job 6 months ago. He moved from an urban school to a rural one and has had to adjust accordingly. The 3 of us have uprooted ourselves and everything is riding on him being able to survive in this new school.
Before the move he was enjoying the challenge of working in a school which had just come off special measures. He had a lot of responsibility and it was tough but he also felt he enjoyed the support and respect of the rest of the staff. Now things couldn't be more different.
The first hurdle came in the form of a teaching assistant who had been at the new school forever. At first she appeared helpful, just helping him learn the ropes etc, if a little overbearing and anally retentive at times. Over the past 6 months she has grown ever more undermining and devious, constantly picking holes in whatever he does, telling visitors to the class to report to her rather than him, going behind his back to management about every little thing so that he feels unable to even breathe without fear of getting it wrong.
To make matters worse, this is an incredibly tight-knit rural community where, even if you are approved of you still have to break your way in, in order to form friendships etc. Of course this teaching assistant is already best pals with every high ranking member of staff DH might have sought support from. He has attempted to raise issues at meetings and be heard by the deputy head et al, he's basically shouted down, told that the TA is 'only trying to help' etc.
Now these attempts have backfired and all he seems to have achieved is to have 'drawn attention to himself' so that he is now being monitored, assessed etc much more closely and the pressure on him has increased to an unbearable level. His last formal assessment was a disaster, he feels mainly because of the way he is percieved rather than his teaching abilities.
At to this the mindless, endless bueracracy that every teacher has to deal with and the fact that the local NUT rep has refused point blank to give him any support or help at work (because she feels he only joined the union to tackle these issues ). I wouldn't be surprised if she was less than impartial and had connections at the school in question, friendships even, as she is local and everyone knows absolutely everyone round here. It's like living in the 1950s but not in a good way.
This morning he had a severe panic attack. Not surprising given the level of stress he is under constantly. I am very worried about the effect all this is having on his mental health.
He has PPA time one morning a week and his boss recommended that he work from home as he is a long way from the school. Yesterday one of the kids asked why he was never in on that particular morning, another kid piped up 'thats the morning mr misfit has a lie in'. Now he's convinced this is something the TA has said behind his back to undermine him, which, given her general attitude is fairly likely. Might not be, but that's the frame of mind he's in at the moment.
Any advice most welcome.
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DH having a nightmare at work. NUT not prepared to help him.
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totalmisfit · 04/03/2009 09:37
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