hi all
long-time sporadic poster, however am finally pg!
i am currently 5-6 weeks gone, and work in an office, however some of the people i work with are significantly older than me so physical things such as lift chairs, heavy files, paper etc all fall on me, however to be fair i could make excuses for not doing this... i am wondering when to tell?
this is complicated by the fact that i havent been with my current employer all that long - started in summer - and its construction based (although thankfully not in the sense of house building)... so i am torn, do i tell early to hope to have a bit of protection in the case of any redundancy ( this has not been mentioned but in the current climate wouldnt be unexpected, as higher up the chain there have been movements and one redundancy)or do i keep schtum and make excuses regarding lifting, for fear of miscarrying and having to recount thta news?
this is also complicated by the fact that i have yet to be given a staff hand book, and each time ive chased this with HR ive been fobbed off, i would like to know what my entitlements are as im unlikely to return to the job. If i know full well i am not going to be returning to the job, where do i stand with just asking for SMP( so that i wouldnt have to repay any?) or would i have to pretend i intend to comeback and take what is offered? either way i would go back for a bit, my ideal would be to return part-time but thats unlikely given the managerial style in place, so i would go back in order to take an holiday i would be owed.
I dont have any problem telling my Boss and HR on a personal level however i am slightly supersticious, and wouldnt want to tell my other colleagues as to be honest at times i dislike some of them.
i suppose this all seems a bit ahead of time, but i am naturally a worrier / planner and want to do whats best as i do enjoy my job.
to summarise i just want to know what my options are legally and what your own selves would do regarding telling work? i was think after my first scan so i have accurate dates?
anyway apologies for the ramble!
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BBisfinallyPG · 01/03/2009 18:15
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