Hi there.
Basically I'm looking for some advice as my head is frazzled. I have a 15-month od DD. When I was pregnant and prior to going on mat leave, I requested that when I returned to work that I could work one day from home. I work in an environment that is male dominated and very traditional. On consultation with my boss, he agreed on the premise that I OK it with each of my immediate colleagues. I done this. He told me NOT to go through HR, that it would be a private agreement and he would honour his word. I knew him, trusted him and understood that he was 'old-school' and would take it badly if I tried to formalise it through the proper channels. So we went with it. I returned to work in January and my assistant manager revealed he knew nothing of the arrangement and made his negative feelings known. However, the arrangement stood and it worked well with no hiccups.
However, last month my boss resigned suddenly. The former assistant is now my boss. Yesterday he told me the working from home wasn't an option. He 'had no problems with my productivity - quite the opposite' but wants me in the office. My new assistant (confusing, I know) offered a very veiled threat by saying that if I was to go through HR and appeal that life would be very difficult on the desk for me. I don't want to say what I do but I work with guys in an industry that is traditionally female free. My former manager, at 56, had never had to deal with a pregnant employee before. Anyway, I don't know where to turn. It's all very well to invoke the proper procedure but the harsh reality is that I know my day-to-day life will be made very awkward. I asked if I could drop a day and be paid pro-rata and was told the same thing - 'it wouldn't be in my interests to do so.' We have just recently had a spate of redundancies and it was mentioned that if I was to be seen as part-time I'd be first out the door if/when there are more lay-offs.
I'm really upset and struggling to get my head round it all. Sorry for such a long post. Thanks.
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Desperately need some advice.
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ali23 · 30/07/2008 09:01
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