Apologies in advance if I get all ranty but I'm having a real strop.
Basically, DP was made redundant last year about a month before I went on maternity leave. He's in I.T. and didn't find it as easy as he thought to get contract work. He was out of work until around 3 months ago when he got offered a job which is much more specific than his previous role and requires a lot of extra learning, for £6k less pa than he was on. Needs must and all so he took it.
He's not really been happy there but it turns out that when he accepted the job they said there may be occasional overtime, which is fair enough. After he's been there for a couple of weeks turns out that there's mandatory overtime pretty much every week, which was not made clear from the outset. So basically some days he'll start work at 8.30am, work til 9pm, then be back in the next day at 8.30am. There's also some weekend work involved.
Anyway, what's just really annoyed me is that DP's just emailed to tell me that he's been given his work schedule for June, and in addition to working o/t in the week, he's down to do 1 day in every single weekend in the month.
I know it might sound really selfish but this then means by default that I'm also looking after our 9 month old baby all the time with no help, I'm struggling to do that and keep on top of the house which is going to rack and ruin, DP and I never see each other at all and when we do we're both so tired that we practically kill each other. I have so many things that I need to get done at that moment which just doesn't happen while I'm looking after DS, and I'm just watching all these things piling up, not getting dealt with and it's really stressing me out.
Personally I think it sounds totally dodgy that they weren't straight up about this overtime. But also aren't there certain directives about how many hours you need between shifts of a certain length? And is it really ok to expect him to work for 26 days out of 30? Is there anything that DP can do, apart from look for another job which he is doing?
Cheers for any advice, sorry it was a bit long winded and ranty.
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bohemianbint · 22/05/2007 13:47
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