Hi all,
I have just returned from mat leave and am in a bit of a messy situation and need some advice on what my options are. I've listed my situation first and put my three questions at the bottom. I'm hoping that you mumsnetters can help!
My situation:
I have returned off mat leave already 4.5 months pregnant, so will leave again in 4 months. Because of this, my mat leave has been kept on so that she can cover my next mat role. I’m struggling because my mat leave cover is retaining the more high profile elements of the post and I’ve been left with admin/repetitive/support tasks. Before my return, I did ask my managers that I be given a distinct project so that my mat leave cover could remain in post without disrupting the team but this was refused, I was told I had to come back into post.
My difficulty is this, I want these 4 months to count so that when I leave again for mat leave no 2, that I’ll have delivered rewarding projects to show for my time back in the office, at the moment I don't see this happening. Very importantly, my mat leave cover has refocused the role away from my strengths and towards her own, so now the role is heavily focused in areas that I am neither interested in or good at. I feel that this change is to the detriment of the team’s outputs, but my management don’t seem to notice or care.
My situation has been made worse by me returning to a new management structure, with two new managers who don’t seem to notice that I’m now in a support role to my mat leave cover, that the role is now weighted more heavily toward the mat leave’s skillset rather than my own, or know about my previous track record of delivering high quality work (I was 100% job matched in a restructure before I left).
I’ve tried flagging the strategic importance of the tasks that are going undone, but they don’t seem to understand the significance which suggests that their skillset are weighted towards my mat-leave cover rather than my own. I believe my new managers will realise the importance of these tasks after I’ve left once large strategic pieces need delivering but can’t because of these tasks not being completed.
I feel utterly lost about my situation and am spending most of my time at work on the brink of tears.
My questions:
I want to know what my options are... would anyone know?
- Could I leave and retain my mat leave allowance which starts in 4 months? My contract allows me to take 2 months unpaid leave, which coupled with my remaining annual leave allowance would take me upto my maternity leave. Would I be entitled to propose that I use my AL allowance and 2 months annual leave and then retain my maternity leave allowance? Or would I have to resign?
- Is this a case of bad management? Should they be taking a more active role in divvying up work and recognising what a difficult situation I am in? Before I returned, I did flag that this would be a difficult situation and that I was happy to return and work on a distinct project, leaving my mat leave cover in post so as to ensure continuity.
- If I am to stay on, do you have any advice on how best to approach this?
Thank you so much for getting this far in my post.
In hopeful thanks. X