Hi all,
So I've been signed off from work for a month due to stress. I've currently spent a week at home but I'm feeling so guilty about not being at work. I've read other threads about people being off with stress and they seem to be so ill and now I am feeling like a fraud because I am still able to do things like walk my dog and go for a run. I feel so guilty right now, I'm sat on the sofa with my dog watching TV and all I can think is that my work is paying me to do a job and here I am watching TV! I feel so lazy. Then I start thinking about going back to work and all the panicky feelings come back. When I was there, I felt so incapable and inadequate. I have decided to resign and will be contacting my boss to let her know. Having this conversation is stressing me out so I am going to wait until tomorrow when I have my sister in law with me so I am not alone when I phone work. My notice period is quite long, I can't officially leave until Xmas so I'm hoping my doctor will continue to sign me off until then because I can't face going back but then I think maybe I'm making a bigger deal out of this and I am well enough to go back. Then I panic about how I will be perceived and treated by people if I do go back to work as I have heard from a work friend that some people there don't think I'm really ill. Then I start thinking that maybe they are right, I'm not ill, just too lazy to do the work my job requires. I worry that if my doctor signs me off again, work will involve occupational health and the occupational health person will "see through me" and say I should be back at work. Oh dear, I'm sorry this post has gone on and on, I know I've rambled. I just wanted some advice I guess. Do other people who have been off with stress felt this way? I think I feel guilty that I am able to do things, I feel like if I was really ill with stress then I would not want to get out of bed or like I should be crying all the time. All I've done since I got signed off is worry...
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Off with stress and feeling guilty
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Greensweet · 05/10/2016 11:47
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