Feeling sad today. Maybe cos it's Mother's Day tomorrow ?
Visited dad. Gave him new slippers and fed him yoghurt. Clearly it's " patient choice for an easy life " carer team today - left him in bed till 12 ( so no breakfast) and didn't get him to the dining table for lunch so I don't know how much of what he ate slumped in a chair with out prompts.
Had a really good chat with the geriatrician yesterday. It was clear dad hadn't a scooby who I was or why I was there. I could have been anyone. I guess until now I got something " back " from interacting with him - even just a smile and a polite listen to my rambles - though I knew he didn't understand what j was on about. No I don't really. He liked the yoghurt but fell asleep and I sat there for an hour and went home.
There are benefits from being able to work on Line I guess!
How do you cope with this ? In a way I feel like going less and less but I'd feel so guilty if I did - on the other hand I'm exhausted and the house is going to wrack and ruin - even the bathroom is bleugh ....
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Helenluvsrob · 05/03/2016 17:01
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