Just spoke to my Mum ... She cares for my Dad who has Lewy body dementia and Parkinson's. she is exhausted as Dad was up 4 times in the night wanting to go shopping. He has only been back from respite care for 2weeks. She can't carry on and won't get help. Not only have I lost my Dad to dementia but also my Mum she is so stressed it has changed her from a positive, active, organised, kind woman. I hate it both my parents have gone. Yesterday they didn't watch the 6 nations match because Dad thought rugby was boring I cannot begin to tell you how profound that and the need to go shopping is.... He hated hated shopping and was the most devoted rugby fan.... He is not my Dad anymore. Mum cries all the time, makes snipey comments, struggles to make decisions and is illogical....she was always the driving force in their relationship...She is not my Mum anymore. Part of me wants them to die they are so so unhappy. I love and miss the real them so much
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