DM is almost 90 and has been addicted to painkillers and laxatives all my life l blame her GP for overprescribing as she clock watches and stops what she is doing if it is 4 hours since her last tablets. She loves "being ill" and usually answers the phone in a whiney pathetic voice then when she knows it sort of reverts to normal.
However having being "constipated" for years she now has diarrhoea for past 2 weeks and GP has referred her to hospital for tests. I cut short my holiday to come home to help her and yesterday she said she felt terrible and wanted someone to sit with her. I suggested she phoned the GP and he prescribed tablets to stop her being sick but she has never complained to me of feeling sick!!! Anyway l duely picked up prescription and although she said she wasn't feeling sick she took a tablet "just in case". She had no diarrhoea yesterday and said she felt better but today my DS phoned me to say that DM had told her she was very unwell yesterday and today.
I am at a loss. She has played the invalid almost since the day l was born and was cared for by my devoted DF until he died.
'I don't know what to think. Is she ill or is she not? I do think she has been ill but is she better and just enjoying the additional attention?
Boy sorry for the epic post but l am mentally and physically exhausted by it all
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Doha · 17/08/2013 19:02
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