Hi
I recently had to make an emergency 200 mile trip to see my mum because her phone was cut off because she hadn't paid the bill. When I got there it was clear her finances are a mess - unpaid bills, her bank account is overdrawn. Yet she is overpaying on her rent - a statement from the housing association shows she has 2 standing orders going out and is nearly £1800 in credit. I took her paperwork away, paid off the bills myself and tried to set up direct debits online, though I'm not sure the bank will approve them.
She is not capable of sorting this out herself. How is it possible for me to do things like stopping a standing order without physically taking her to the bank? (which I can't do, I'm on my own, 5 hours away with 3 young children).
She lives alone and does not have anyone close by to help with this on a regular basis. I'm currently dealing with her GP to see what help she needs.
I'm at a loss as to where to begin with this so any advice welcome.
Thank you x
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where do I start with my mum who doesn't understand finances anymore?
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meemar · 26/02/2013 11:15
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