Hi.
I have my youngest home from school today with a badly swollen foot. He tells me this boy kicked him. They are in yr6.
This boy has been targetting my son since he joined the school last year. He has made my sons life a misery there.
This boy has a few problems, and my own son has probs socialising so there is bound to be a few sparks somewhere. My own son has a lot of probs coping with dyspraxia. His esteem hits rock bottom at times and this spate of incidences has not helped. The school are aware of what is going on and the probs associated with each child. I have been up to the school before to make a complaint about the other lad. I don't wrap him up in cotton wool as he has to learn that there are "nasty things" out there in the world.
Yesterday was the last straw. I wrote a letter to the school explaining why my son wasn't there. His foot is so swollen he can't walk on it. I have also made it a formal complaint stating that if the child was 10 or over, or in secondary school, this sort of action would be classed as assault.
I try not to encourage hitting back but I am at the end of my tether. My eldest son says to his brother to hit him back, hard! Inside, I agree but don't condone such actions really.
I have difficulties getting my son to bed at night and in the mornings it is hell! He comes up with any old "schoolitis" problem that he can think of. I can't keep ignoring this, can I?
Anyway, I have hand delivered the letter of complaint and now waiting for a phone call from the headmistress. Enough is enough.
Thanks for the rant. Now I need some advice on how to handle the headmistress when invited to go see her... pleeeeze. I'm a coward at heart and would like some ideas of how to be firm but fair... or whatever you think.
Thanks again for letting me rant... (sigh) I feel a bit better now.
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jojo38 · 15/10/2004 10:33
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