I wonder if any primary teachers or mothers of similar aged children can help me get my head round this...
My dd is just 5 and has been in P1 (reception) since August.
She has had a few (less than 5) "accidents" in that time- not getting to the loo quickly enough, and she always has a spare pair of pants in a plastic bag in her school bag, so that she can change if necessary.
Last week she had another accident. She told me that she had been playing out at lunchtime and was laughing so much, that she wet her pants. She went to get her spare pair and went to the loo, but had trouble getting her tights back on. I got a note in her bag that evening from her teacher, who says that she was "hysterical" and could I contact the school to talk to her about it.
I asked dd why she didn't ask for help, and she says that when she has asked in the past she is told to go by herself.
Ok, so since then she has been to school in dress and socks or trousers on a cold day.
On Friday dd told me she'd had another accident, this time during a lesson, but she didn't change her pants, because they're not allowed to go to the toilet during lessons, only at break times. She held on till she got to the childminders after school.
Can this be right? Is it normal to not allow small children to go to the loo when they need to? Some of the kids in that class are still 4, and it seems a bit harsh! I appreciate that lessons can be disruted by comings and goings, but dd cannot be expected to remember that she MUST go to the toilet at break, whether she wants to or not.
I have tried to phone the school today, but the teacher is "out" this afternoon, so will phone again tomorrow morning, but wondered if I should be doing something else to make dd more "bladder-aware" (Is there anything I can do?)
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tissy · 19/03/2007 13:38
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