in my year 5 class i have boy with some big emotional and behavioural difficulties. he comes from a very difficult family background ( mum with depression, psychotic episodes, domestic violent- and that's just the suff i know about).
anyway, i'd like some advice on how to deal with him, as he's quite disruptive in class. he constantly fiddles, throws things, makes noises, whistles, irritates other children and won't come when he's asked to eg leave room for time out, lining up on the playground. his 'dripping tap' behaviour is impacting on the class, as he is monopolising alot of time and attention in class and is really getting me down. i've tried...ignoring it, praising him, reward charts,talking to him, talking to dad. nothing works for more than an hour!
it's like he wants to challenge my authority all the time. eg i gently removed a ruler from his hand as he was waving it around in class- i didnt say anything as i didnt want to make a big display of it. but then as soon as i returned to the front of the class, he'd found another ruler to wave around- and stared at me as if to say 'what are you going to do about it?'
the thing i'd like advice with is to do with the fact that he's TOTALLY different with me 1:1. he often hangs around during break to chat or help me do job. he works really well for me, at times ,if i sit next to him and support him in class. he loves to do little jobs like fetch the bell and often tells me little things at the end of class eg about the arrival of his new kitten.
i'm just so confused about his 'jekylkl and hyde behaviour'. i don't mind spending time with him after class, as i thought it might help build a rapport and be nurturing for him. but i'm starting to think he thinks i'm being a soft touch! maybe i should stop trying to befriend him at play time...but he comes to me!
any insight/advice appreciated.
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ADVICE on dealing with DISTURBED, DISRUPTIVE 9YO, please
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noonar · 02/10/2006 17:18
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