Thanks for your replies.
I had a feeling it couldn't be generally a part of the curriculum. I think people could get such a lot from it. As a mum of a young child with disabilities I have over the past few months been privileged to witness first hand public interaction (or, rather dis-interaction) with disabled children and adults.
I feel so bad not only for my boy and myself, but also for adults and children who don't know how to react when they encounter someone with disabilities. When out shopping for instance, we have to deal with dozens of little (or not so little!) instances of embarrassment, uncomfortableness or plain ignorance. People stare, stumble over their words, or feel that they can make outrageously inappropriate comments.
Ignorance leads to fear which leads to rejection and the isolation of the people who need friendship and acceptance the most - this is almost universally documented by the other mums I know in this situation. The thought of kids being cruel to my little boy when he gets to school breaks my heart. Of course not all kids will be, but I know it's irresistible for most, it's just the way they are, but to accept this and not try to negate through education this day and age must be wrong?
It seems to me that if so much time is given to learning about other minority groups - ie in religious and cultural tuition, why isn't some sort of disability awareness taught? After all it's not such a small minority, and it affects Everyone. Wouldn't everyone benefit from knowing how to interact with a mum or a child or an adult with, or coming to terms with, disabilities/being different from "normal"? I think it would go a long way towards our society becoming more civilised and bring an extra opportunity for kids to develop a deeper and more compassionate understanding of the world they live in.
God, I can hear the groans now, I know it must be so boring reading stuff like this if you think disability doesn't touch you. I'm not a do-gooder or particularly pc ..........I'm rambling and probably haven't made myself clear because I don't have time to think let alone post on forums much anymore, but I'd be very interested to know what you all think.