DD1 is at private school, but as far as I can tell, is wasting the chance to achieve her full potential. She is 14 and has just started on her exam subjects. If I moved her I would be doing so when she's 15, so half way through the syllabus.
The feedback I get from school is that her work is adequate but sometimes appears rushed or not detailed enough. She is constantly in trouble for not having the right books, she has had detentions and "causes for concern" for not handing homework in and her school bag is a shambles. I try to help and have discussed things with the school but nothing seems to make any difference.
There's not a bad bone in her body - she has never been pulled up for disruptive behaviour or for being mean, rude or unpleasant for which I am grateful.
My dilemma is that I choose this school because of excellent academic results. DD1 is not in the least bit sporty or drama oriented so doesn't really benefit from that side of things.
I am starting to feel that I'm wasting my money - not because the school is letting us down but because DD1 is letting herself down. If the drive and desire to do well just isn't there then would I be better just moving her to the local state school and say blowing all the money I save on trips to the Maldives putting the money away for a deposit on a flat for her?
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abcdangel · 20/11/2013 11:41
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