My youngest started school last October, full time in November. He knew a few children by sight before he started as they were siblings of kids in my oldest class.He had one or two play dates with a couple of kids whos mums I got talking to on our pre start visits. In general he has been happy to go to school and has been invited to 4 parties since he went full time. <br /> My question is why hasn
t he made friends with anyone or been asked home for tea even? He often tells me he sits in the garden at school on his own. I think he has spotted that this bothers me so I think he has started making up names of kids he plays with. I have asked 5 or 6 of his class mates home for tea and they seem to have a nice time but the return visit hasnt been offered. <br /> Ds is 4 and one of the youngest, so can get tired at times and can also resort to tears if things don
t go his way but no more that I think another child would. Ds wears glasses and was being called proffessor by some kids in an older class. I stopped this by speaking to their teacher.
His birthday is in April, he cant tell me the names of a few people he
d like to have at his party. He says he likes everyone and wants all 30 to come! Im thinking it is just another sign that he has no special friends. <br /> I was in hospital for a week recently and he was observed crying in the garden on his own by 2 of the other mums, he wouldn
t talk to either of them or let them comfort him. I have seen other children cry and they seem to get sympathy from the other kids.
What would you do? Shall I continue to invite kids home for tea?
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figleaf · 21/02/2006 10:52
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