What is the matter with some people? I have to rant on here, because it's too petty and mindless to start making mad phonecalls about and bother my friends with - but I know Mumsnet will indulge me! Honestly, all I asked, is whether somebody could please find out what had happened to my DS's water bottle, which hadn't come home on Friday. I'd asked someone about it at the time and she'd said she'd pass the message on, needless to say, no-one has got back to me and DS has no water bottle so is not drinking enough during the day. Well you would have thought I was demanding that they install an Evian spa, the reaction I got. "I wasn't here on Friday... he's supposed to check himself... we can't find everything..." in the end I said with an annoying smile guaranteed to make the woman want to slap me: "I'm not having an argument about it, I'm just enquiring, OK?"
OK I know she was having a bad day. But so was I. And the automatic default position of defensiveness, rather than helpfulness, just really irritated me this morning and has left me feeling peeved. And I'm irritated that I allowed the bloody woman to wind me up - I'm usually good at leading people like that onto positive helpful territory, but I just couldn't be bothered this morning - I just wanted to say "FGS, just tell me if he has a water bottle or not, so that I can buy him a new one if he hasn't, and stop trying to pick a fight with me, you lunatic!" Luckily, I restrained myself!
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How is it possible for a simple enquiry about a water bottle to be turned into a confrontation?
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Caligula · 04/10/2005 09:39
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