My DD1 will be 16 in July. She has been anorexic since she was 11. She has been in specialist inpatient units twice, once when she was 12 and once when she was 13/14. She had a really positive Y10 and first term of Y11. I dared to hope that it was all in the past.
Last week my 14 year old DD2 came to me crying. Her friend's sister had told her that DD1 throws up her lunch in the toilets at school. I told DD2 it sounded like a silly rumour. It isn't. I followed DD1 at home, listened to her purging in the bathroom and confronted her. I really looked at my daughter for the first time in a while. Her weight is down. She looks exhausted. Her upper arms are cut to pieces. I would love to say it is GCSE stress but, even if that is the cause, it makes no difference - after a massive hysterical screaming, sobbing scene over dinner last night I've got to admit she has relapsed yet again. We are back to the doctors this week.
I don't know how to go through all this again. I have 6 other children. My twins are only 11 months old. DD2 is so so close to DD1 and isn't coping with this. DD3 has problems with anxiety and OCD. She wet her bed last night. She's 11! I don't want my other children to suffer. They need my time and attention too and they need to feel happy and relaxed at home. But I can't give up on my DD1 either.
I'm not giving up. Not really. I just wanted to vent I suppose.
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Eating disorders
Has anyone ever felt like just giving up?
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blameitonthecaffeine · 27/05/2014 03:16
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