I have been separated from my husband for eight months. I left after being very unhappy for a long time. It was an EA marriage if that makes any difference and I met someone just before I left. It was something I already told him I was going to do.
Ex has taken it very badly. We have a very bad relationship. I have every empathy for him and he continues to either ignore me or be foul to me every time I see him at handover.
I have made an appointment this week to file for divorce. I am not doing it to be cruel or to hurt him anymore. I am doing it to move on. I don't want to be married to someone who despises me. I know it will hurt him though but how long do I wait? I can't wait the two years? I tried to leave for so long and am finally feeling like I can breathe that I feel I need to just start this and move on.
Am I being completely unreasonable please
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Tingatingatale · 03/01/2017 15:23
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