I don't know whether to post this here or in Legal Advice, perhaps I will post there in the morning.
So, as I have posted on here lots recently STBXH admitted to an affair 4 weeks ago and I threw him out. When DF died, I inherited some money and some of this was put down as a deposit on our house and a Buy to Let deposit on the flat we were living in then which we rented out. I'm going to be moving back in there when we sell the house. But, to get a better mortgage deal I also paid off his loan and credit card - verbally agreed as a loan but nothing in writing and he has never paid a penny back. We're talking about £40,000 from my inheritance.
He has said he will pay it all back when the house is sold. But legally, I don't think he has to does he? We have both taken advice from solicitors (free 30 min consultation), mine has said you start at 50/50 and negotiate, his has said as it was used for "joint" reasons it is deemed "joint" money and he doesn't have to pay it back.
Does anyone know where I stand? I feel sick at the thought that I might lose this money as I desperately need it when I am living on my own. As I said, he says he will pay it back but how can I trust him to do the right thing when he has left me for OW with all the lies that that involves?
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Have leant STBXH money, can I get him to pay it back?
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GinBunny · 26/09/2016 22:47
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