Firstly, Hello to everyone who is reading this!
I'm here to ask for advice, as I have never experienced this before and have no idea where to even start.
I'll hopefully give you some details to help assist in the advice you can provide.
My wife and I have been married nearly 4 years. We have decided, on mutual grounds, that we want to divorce. The relationship is amicable, and there is nothing malicious in the reasons that we want to separate.
We currently live together in a rented house. Everything we have, including the rented house, is in my name.
We have no joint accounts, no children, no mortgage together, and no joint financial interests.
We thought it would be as easy as filling out a form, and getting a divorce. But apparently we have to wait two years, and prove at the end of this that we have been separated for two years before we can even begin to apply to make it official.
The only thing in all of this that we both agree on, is that we want some sort of clean financial break. I want to ensure that my pension is secured, and that she knows what she is entitled to for the time we have been together. We have both agreed that this is fair, and have also agreed we want to make sure we can't claim against each other in the future. We know how we are going to split the few items of furniture that we have together, etc.
Any advice, or a good starting point, is highly appreciated.
The few people I've spoken to about this have said it is an unusual situation as it isn't usually so amicable, and there is usually children or a financial situation involved.
Cheers!
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SharSat · 25/11/2015 19:35
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