Dh and I are separating. We currently live overseas and the plan is for me to move back to the uk with the dcs in a couple of months, with dh following in 1-2 years (he can't move back immediately because of work issues). He will however see dcs most weekends. Dcs don't know that we have split up yet - it is very recent - and I am really worried about the double whammy of separation plus removing them from a country which has been their home for nearly 5 years. Would it be better to stagger the process as far as possible, so separate, dh moves out then dcs and I move to the uk once they are more used to dh and I living apart? Financially and emotionally it makes little sense for me to stay here long term but I want to try to do what's best for dcs (3 and 5). They do have friends/ties to the uk so it's not unfamiliar and I plan for them to start school/nursery fairly soon after the move back so they have structure etc. I would love to hear from anyone who's been through this (it's grim even if for the best long term. Thanks.
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