My dh and I have made a brave decision to separate, no 3rd party involved it's just gone stale. This happened 8 months ago and we have tried relate but things have fell back into a bad way. No arguing just like best mates really... Separate beds.
The thing is, I am absolutely terrified as I cannot imagine life without him here with me and dd1 (12) and dd2 (8). I cannot do this and keep having panic moments.
I also have no idea when it cones to what benefits I am entitled to, I work 25hrs a week and bring home around £700. Plus the 140ish we get for what I know as family allowance(prob called something different now).
Please can anyone help/advice or just send me a hug. I have failed my kids big time!
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Terrified....please help
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Lukat · 10/07/2012 17:35
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