Its been a week since the split. have young son with long term partner. What she needs is space. I struggled at first with suddenly not being able to contact her throughout the day every day as was the norm. That's without the physically seeing her every morning and night. I have come to terms with the fact that no contact between the 2 of us is probably the best for all concerned at the moment, but I am struggling big time with not seeing the boy. I find I am in a catch 22 situation where she doesn't want me to contact her, but I need to in order to arrange seeing the boy. I have seen him once in the last week, for a few hours yesterday in a neutral location , just the boy , not her. It made me feel better at first but in the end it's actually making me pine for him even more. He seemed to have grown up so much in only a week and i am terrified about only seeing a fraction of these , his best , most innocent years. For Background we didn't split due to cheating or anything like that, more deeper issues that have been brewing over time.
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VoyageOfDad ·
11/03/2015 06:52
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