I am a woman and need a bit of male help to interpret a situation.
I am presently seeing an osteopath to help with some issues I am having. The therapist is male, but highly professional and I am very comfortable having physical contact with him. I tend to wear a singlet top and light stretchy leggings for this treatment.
The treatment does involve him touching me eg. pressing parts of my back, moving me into different positions by touching my legs, arms etc. At times he also needs to lean his weight on me. So it can be quite intimate, but he is very professional and we tend to avoid too much eyecontact at these moments. To be honest, I do find him quite attractive, but I feel a bit self-conscious of my slightly flabby self next to his finely toned exterior.
Yesterday I was on the edge of the couch, sitting on my heels with my feet hanging off the end, but bent right foward so that my head was down and he was treating an area of my back. However, as he pushed forward, I felt the curve of my toes (feet hanging off the end of the bench) come actively into contact with something that I was fairly sure was his crotch, as if he had pressed himself against me. Then it happened a second time. I did not react at all and stayed still. When I stood up and I looked carefully at him he did seem a tiny bit flustered and began talking about an exercise that he had not yet shown me, which is not usual for him. Then it was fairly close to the end of the session. I did not feel unsafe, but just a bit puzzled.
So what is going on here? On one level I feel he must be insane, as I am really not showing some of my best features during these sessions - my feet are definitely 'natural' women's feet, not pedicured works of art.
Is this kind of thing ever accidental?
Am I over-interpreting this?
Is it likely to be just 'of the moment'? - looking at it objectively I was in quite a sexualised position at that moment and he does handle my body a lot in these sessions.
Does doing this mean anything to cause conern about him?
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What went on here? Interpreting physical contact.
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FootSurprise · 07/08/2013 10:14
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