Well, just that really!
Things between us have been fine, mostly because I'm surpressing my true feelings - if I'm honest I'm really unhappy how things are at the moment and feel I need to have a very serious discussion with him about what things I would like to change if we are going to have a future together.
The problem is, he takes any sort of negative comment really really badly. This is mainly why I have been surpressing my feelings for so long because I just can't bear the big screaming argument that will result, we just end up in a situation where he doesn't listen and won't take any of my comments on board because he is so angry and defensive.
I can't live my life without challenging him on his behaviour because I'm worried about how he will take it and I don't want to give up either.
What is the best way to do this? I've been thinking about writing a letter but that seems so....I don't know, it just doesn't seem right. I've thought about having another person there who knows us both but can be a bit more objective but I think that would probably make him angrier that I told him our relationship needed work in front of other people.
What do I do?
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How best to confront a DH who doesn't take confrontation well?
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extremepie · 13/03/2013 09:34
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