I'm a SAHM former academic thinking I'd like to give writing a bash. I've written a novel but I realise that's fairly pointless unless I know a lot more about the industry - and the only way to do that is to talk to people, especially in this country (not UK) where the industry consists of about 47 people who all have nieces or next door neighbours with novels more worthy than mine. (Go on, ask me about the How to Get Published seminar I went to last year!) I know full well I'm not going to meet anyone who can help in between playdates out here in Darkest Suburbia. (Ask me about my local writers' group!)
So I know, I know, I really need to Get Out There, somehow, because I do want to be published.
But. But but but BUT.
I don't like other writers. I never have. (No offence to readers of this forum .) I don't want to talk about my work with other writers. (except, perhaps, with you.) I definitely don't want to hear about theirs. (this might all change, of course, if I found people writing about similar stuff to mine, but right now the only people I know even vaguely write futuristic military thrillers or have Lofty Ambitions - gak.) I don't have a literary cell in my body - I read things with embossed, swirly-scripted titles and I tend to like stuff that is a little obscure. (Some of the biggest names in my preferred genre write awful edit-free twaddle.) I don't want to be a big seller myself, just write the sort of faintly intelligent rubbish that I like to read. And I really, really don't want to fork out money to register for a group which I won't enjoy because I doubt my two cents' is worth putting in now that five years of parenting has completely eaten my brain and I can't string a single paragraph together without having to change two nappies, administer a dose of antibiotics, wipe up some spilled milk, dole out strawberries and break up a one-girl lego-snatching ring.
Can I just be clear - I would be happy - delighted - over the moon! - to have useful critique, but ime that is extremely rare and difficult to find, and most of what you get is, "ooh, I like that bit" or "not my cup of tea but jolly good, carry on" or "your writing is crap, not like John Le Carre at all". When I was writing academic stuff I found the refereeing process excruciating because feedback would be "this is glib" instead of "you need to take closer account of existing arguments".
Am I actually just too misanthropic to be a writer?
thanks for your time. now I'm going back into my cave to feed the children their breakfast, have a shower, bust up the reformed and now very loud lego-snatching ring, force them into some clothes and take them out to see Jimmy Giggle at the local shopping centre. see what I mean?
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phdlife · 16/06/2012 23:40
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