Not sure when to have next baby

[misschatterbox]

Hi all
My husband and I decided from the start that we would have 3 children. After having our 2nd dd, I was unsure because no one listened to my concerns about her being too big while I was pg. I am very petite. Anyway her shoulders got stuck and there was lots of yanking and twisting going on. So this made me nervous. I decided that the earliest I would try for a number 3 is in December 2009 as our first dd will have start school in Jan and our second dd will start nursery. However, after seeing my friend heavily pregnant I have become extremely broody and although I keep saying to everyone about Dec I really want to start trying now. Am I mad? I am worried about how people will react. I guess my main thing is that because I am so petite and look ten yrs younger than I am I already experience negative treatment and don't want to make it worse. Sorry, to babble on.

[VJaybigpants]

hi misschatterbox you shouldn't worry what other people think, you and your dh should just do what you want to do. As for the next delivery, speak to your midwife, when the time comes, about it and explain all your worries and see what they suggest. Good luck to you xxx