How do I get pregnant then?

[InTheMud]

After an emotional weekend, my partner and I are going to start trying for a baby soon. I'm worrying it's going to be harder than I think, so can anyone recommend every tip possible for getting pregnant?

When is it easiest, how will I know when I'm ovulation etc? Sorry, I'm clueless when it actually comes down to it.

I just want to make sure I'm as prepared as possible and in the right position...

I'm 23 and he is 28.

[VerifiedLU4097]

I can't help it- sorry, but HAVE SEX!!!!! lots!!! 3-4 times a week and make sure you take a folic acid supplement. You're 23, by the laws of averages its a great age to conceive, so don't initially worry about 'tips'. good luck!

[SnowOfHands]

Don't worry at first. Have sex. Lots of it.

If you want to know more, read Toni Weschler's Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Excellent book.

[MLWfirsttimemum]

Lots of sex and not getting too worried too soon ! Having said that I also used Zita West's guide to getting pregnant. It has a plan "A" where she talks about working out when you ovulate and generally about making sure you and your partner are as healthy as possible and a plan "B" which is for when you have been on plan A for a while and it isn't working. Don't read that section though until you need it! I used it to make sure we maximised our chances of conceiving and fortunately never had to read part "B".

[AttilaTheMeerkat]

BTW as well position does not come into it. Legs in the air post intercourse is not necessary either; enough sperm will get to the cervix from where they cannot escape.