Hi - I'm currently thinking of ttc number three, have a dd and ds already with 23 months between them. I'm just interested to know the pros and cons of having more then two, and how easy people found coping with 3 as opposed to 2. The pros to me are - When no3 comes along (presuming we start trying now), ds will be starting school so it won't be so knackering as I'll only have two at home at once mostly (except holidays but hubbie is a teacher so not a problem). We can also afford it, especially as when maternity pay runs out, dd will be old enough for nursery grant to help with the fees (I work from home 2 days a week, so not too strenuous in terms of nursery runs and commuting). I'm one of 4 so love the idea of a big family. also, hubbie's uncle just died, his mum is one of only 2 and is very lonely at the moment now she's siort of on her own, which I don't want to happen to my children. The cons are that I hate pregnancy and birth and husband is not desperately keen on sleepless nights as he has just started his own business and also works full time / is trying to write a research book. Busy man! I suppose I know all the childcare will fall on me so want to know how it will be. Thanks in advance... Any advice on logistics such as how you fit 3 in a car also appreciated - we have a VW Golf at the miment and I don't want to have to get something much bigger as parking will be a complete ar@e!
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