When to try again?..

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Mummyandwife85 Fri 30-Sep-16 07:15:18

Long story short I had a suspected rare ectopic pregnancy in my previous c section scar in my uterus but after a weekend in hospital and endless tests n a MRI scan they fount I have a lower segment pregnancy and 90% chance of a natural miscarriage.. I have been bleeding now for nearly a week now.. lost few clots.. one was very big(sorry if TMI) and in pain on n off just wondering how long after a miscarriage do you let ur body recover before you ttc again?? I was think like two months or more cos tbh this had put my off 😭😢

MrsY87 Fri 30-Sep-16 08:47:50

Hi mummy sorry for your loss. I think you can start trying again whenever you feel ready, not only physically but emotionally too.
Everyone deals with a mc in different ways, for me I just wanted to try again straight away and didn't even wait for my first period after my mc as for me getting pregnant again was all I could focus on, however other people need longer to grieve the baby they have lost before they are ready to try again.
Hope you have lots of support in real life, and when you are ready to try again there is a ttc after miscarriage thread which is great support. Take care of yourself, mc is really tough flowers

Mummyandwife85 Fri 30-Sep-16 10:12:50

Thank you for ur kind words mrsY87 xx yes it's definitely hard tbh I been very logical about all this if not just for my own sanity plus got three kids already so no time really but it's definitely hard n few sudden tears n mix bag of emotions for both me and my poor hubby as this was out first baby together confused but he wants to ttc straight away as for me I'm so scared of this happening again I have no desire to even DTD anytime soon 😢 xx

Fluffsnuts Fri 30-Sep-16 16:10:29

Sorry for your loss.

Definitely wait until you feel ready, and if you don't want to wait that's ok too.

Personally, I waited 6 years, but I accept I was a little extreme!

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