Hiya, I'm hoping you lovely ladies can help me!
My partner of 4 years doesn't want a child with me. He has 3 children from a previously relationship and I have 1 from a former relationship also.
We are amazing together and love each other very deeply, we have a great relationship and I can't image life without him. Ive had a lot of crappy bfs and know he is good man one!
He doesn't want more children as we have 4 in total and finiancial it cost us a lot of money. However I have only the one, I never thought I would only have one and we both have well paid jobs!
It's so hard for me to make a decision, there is no way he will change his mind and I don't want to try and persuade him either!
I have to choose between him or a having another child. It's heartbreaking to think this could be the end but I need to make a decision. The kids we have are already building a blended family life and it can't continue with me not knowing what to do!
I feel unfair on my child, the others have each other but mine is all alone and she has expressed this feeling to me.
What would you do?
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He doesn't want a child and I do!
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Bubbles58 · 01/06/2016 17:23
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