Hi there, my husband (43) and i (33) had a very difficult chat over xmas about whether or not to have children. We ve been married for 9 years and ive always said id like one child someday but my husband has always been indifferent. Hes never said no but always brings up money, space etc, which are totally valid but ive proved to him that we can afford it and he said he was on board. I stopped taking the pill which i discussed with him and he said he was ok with that but the sex hasnt increased and we 've never had sex over my ovulation period. Hes very set in his ways so even though i try to be very obvious he s just not interested if its not a weekend. Its not that we never have sex but its once a wk max and he is away a lot. I just wld like some advice on whether or not i should explain the timing thing to him? Most people seem to say it ll put men off but right now we re hardly TRYING to conceive! Im scared to mention ttk again as he goes v quiet when its mentioned which is hardly ever. We had a wonderful relationship before ttk but now i just feel sad all the time that we cant have fun with it and actually talk about it. I am a very open person but he is much more guarded with his feelings. Im sure when/if i get pregnant he ll be thrilled but he hates planning anything. Just feeling very lonely and negative right now thinking how will i ever get pregnant if we dont have more sex? Keep quiet or have a conversation? Help
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