Hi there, this is really just a message for the ladies who know me on the ttc boards, only I havent been on for ages and didnt really want to clog up the positive threads.
Sadly my sister didnt fall pregnant with her most recent ivf cycle. Another bfn Im afraid, although this time she even got af a few days early, before she was even due to test. It is heartbreaking seeing her go through all this. Doing my very best to stay positive for any further treatment she may have but also be supportive for her right now.
Just makes you jolly well appreciate everything we do have in life, and to remind ourselves that new life, conception and having children is not a God given right, and no matter what we are willing to go through that we still cant "make" it happen. We are all feeling sad and extremly frustrated. This is her 4th try. Every step of the way was successful eg lots of follicles, loads of eggs, all but 1 fertilized, beautiful embryos all the highest grade, 2 embies transferred.........2 week wait, then nothing.
An early af and bfn
I keep thinking God isnt answering our prayers, but then get cross with myself. I keep telling her the only thing she can do is "keep on keeping on" because whats the alternative? To get to the outcome she wants so badly, to hold her baby in her arms, she has to get over these gut-wrenching hurdles and keep trying....
one day it will work for her. It will.
She is doing the best she can just now. I think her and her hubby are going to have a holiday, and give her body (and mind) a rest for a while.
Thanks to all my friends on the ttc boards who have offered so much support both to me (sorry for rambling) and indirectly to my sister. I know we both value the concept of karma and recieving back what you put out in the world, so thankyou for for the good vibes and I hope I can return the support and kindness to others some day.
(((((((((((((hugs and love to all ))))))) pusscat x
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pussycatmomma · 12/08/2006 06:17
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