I just wondered if anyone else felt like this, and if so was your second pregnancy any better?
DS is 4.5, and the light of my life, I didn't think I would want a 2nd child, but it turns out I am quite good at this parenting lark, and would love him to have a sibling after ll.
DP is the most supportive partner I could dream of, no problems there.
I have just turned 40, so need to make my mind up pretty quickly.
0-6 months of my last pregnancy were text book, even enjoyable, no sickness or anything. Shoulder pain started around then, and just got worse and worse over time, to the point I struggled to eat, slept 1 hour per night if at all, became so desperate I spent most of the day in tears.
Saw doctors, who basically told me to get on with it, no pain releif possible except paracetamol which didn't even touch it. I was admitted into hospital 3 times and given gas & air (twice) and morphine (once) just to give me a break from the excruciating pain, and allow me to grab a little sleep.
I am so terrified of this happening again, I can't seem to commit to pregnancy.
Yet I am so broody I can't let go of the idea either.
FWIW I found giving birth a walk in the park compared to constant pain for three months!
I have investigated, limiting weight gain in pregnancy, bump bra's, any other pain relief available, but am still terrified. To add to that, I would also hate DS to see me upset like I was last time.
Has anyone experienced anything like this? Or had a better time 2 nd time around?
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vintagewarrior · 10/01/2013 14:03
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