My dd has quite a "trampoline" stomach. If she eats too much, or something which doesn't agree with her, or even if she gets very over-tired, she just throws up. On top of this, she's had three tummy bugs since Christmas. She's a very neat thrower up, nearly always gets it in a basin / tub if there's one handy, and hardly ever gets it everywhere.
Despite this, ds gets really anxious whenever she's ill. She once was sick at the dinner table while sitting next to him, and I think it dates back to that.
Any time she's been sick, he won't even sit down in the same room as her, he hovers beside the door while watching TV etc, just in case she's sick, so that he can run away (holding his nose, with his fingers in his ears. He needs an extra hand ). Even when she's fine, if she coughs or chokes slightly on a piece of food, you can see him going into flight mode.
How should I best deal with this? Do I allow / encourage him to leave the room at the first sign that anyone will be sick? Or make him sit at the table, for example when she's recovering and at the toast stage. I don't want this to develop into any bigger thing than it already is.
He's just turned 7, btw.
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Worried that ds is getting quite phobic about sickness
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FromGirders · 09/06/2010 10:23
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