Dd2 had he 3.5 year check today with our new HV, i hate taking the dd's for checks as they both have autism and don't always meet milestones etc.
Anyway the HV made me feel useless , she didn't really listen to me, she ran through the list of questions (milestone checks) and was ticking the boxes before i had even answered. She asked me what food i fed the dd's and asked how much processed food they eat, i told her that the dd's have a mixed diet and they eat mainly fresh homemade food but sometimes have processed foods or a take away.
What does 'what i feed the dd's' have to do with a 3.5 year old check?
She also moaned at me for giving dd2 squash to drink, dd2 wont drink water or milk and if i try to give her milk or water she refuses to drink altogether.
She asked me what help i get with the dd's and wanted to send someone to our house to help with dd2's sleep issues.
I felt that she thought i was not coping and not bringing the dd's up correctly.
I mentioned to her that dd2's feet turn inwards and she said she will have a look at her walking and refer her for physio, she didn't check her walking but still referred her anyway. Surely physio would not help, or would it? I thought she just needed some insoles for her shoes to correct her feet (maybe i'm wrong).
Rant over .
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Do all HV's ask these questions for a 3.5 year check?
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Marne · 20/01/2010 17:04
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