I am looking for some advice please, I don't want to be judged, and I just want to do what is best for DC1.
My DC1 is 5, year one in school years. Has always been behind, slower than other kids etc.
Dc2 is 3, and seems a lot more on the ball, alert and is already progressing past DC1. Counting for instance.
I know you shouldn't compare and all children are different but I am worried that DC1 is abit... slow (Unsure of how to describe) or absent.
I can talk to DC1 and they look through me, nothing I say registers. Hearing test came back fine, otherwise healthy, no conditions etc.
DC1's ability to focus just isn't there. Will sit in the car and just stare, its abit creepy tbh.
School said in reception that DC1 is slower than others, and being at the younger end of the year put it down to that. Maybe it is that... but the lack of concentration and the absent look is worrying me. Its like dc1 ones eyes are just glazed 85% of the time.
One thing I have noticed is on the ipad, DC1 is good there, but again it is like the world is on pause and nothing is around. Almost like zoning in.
Dc1 cries a lot, if asked to do something, just instantly cries grabs throat and says "I cant I am choking" or "something is in my throat". - obviously just pushing luck and acting daft. Getting dressed is a nightmare, although I refuse to help now because I do wonder if DC1 is just having me on some of the time. This process can take 25 mins, even when supervised.
Reading is okay for words like cat, dog, kipper, and, biff, big etc
We can read a book, like last night and "This" was on every page. Probably 9 times through the book, yet by the end it still hadn't been slightly grasped. 4th attempt at reading.
Motor skills - behind
Writing - behind. Letters huge, formed backwards sometimes and not helped by hating to do it.
Am I just being overly worried by it?
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5 year old DC very slow, absent.
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worried78 · 04/09/2014 12:32
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