Unless I become very confident in hypnobirthing (I don't know what that is in all honesty) or something to make me more positive in labour, I don't think I can go through it again. Which is difficult when we're trying for a baby agai next year.
Maternity ward were atrocious. Sent my DP home and left me in agony that they called 'little prostin pains' until I got to 4cms, then got him for me. That was the most painful part of the labour though and I was beside myself without him.
Don't want a home birth because if there's complications I want to be in hospital, otherwise I'll panic.
A LOT of people in my town had the same awful things happen to them by the maternity ward in our hospital. 6 had the same experience as me in the same month as me.
So you can imagine why I'm terrified.
Also, I did NOT do well with prostin and my hospital refuse to give epidurals (pethadine and gas and air didn't work for me) so what can I do about that?
i want to sort out my phobias before we try again.
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My labour was horrendous- i want to do some positive thinking next time, where do I start?
G2B · 21/08/2008 21:44
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