Had a very traumatic crash CS last spring, all in big rush, general anaesthetic, the lot.
Was truly horrible. Now I'm 7w pregnant with DC#2 and starting to think about my options for the birth, I know I don't need to make a final decision for aaagggeeess but am truly up in the air.
I know I could get a repeat CS if I want one. But I have realised I always refer to it as "when I had DD", not "when I gave birth" and I still hate that she was plucked out of me while I was unconscious.
I definately don't want a hospital VBAC, labouring against the clock, fighting their protocols to get anything resembling a normal birth...and my lovely DH has surprised my by saying that if I really want a HBAC, I can hire an Independant Midwife
He would love prefer me to book an elective section but knows I am quite keen to try again for a normal delivery.
So can anyone give me any suggestions? If nothing else, if I go the HBAC route I would like to start having my antenatal care with the IM sooner rather than later.
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HBAC or ELCS - opinions please?
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moaningminnie2020 · 30/04/2008 20:29
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