hello
I am a first timer, 4months pregnant and beginning to think about the grim reality of childbirth.
I would like a natural birth (rather than elective caesarian) as I am not too posh to push, but i really want to know the truth about tearing/episiotomies so I know what's ahead. I am pretty small, don't reckon my figure is really cut out for childbirth (no boobs, no hips, etc..) so i am guessing I have a good chance of tearing.
So:
a) does it almost always lead to incontinence?
How long in your experience does the incontinence last?
and
b)I know it will be the LAST thing on my mind, but just so I know, if you tear/have an episiotomy, is that the end of your sex life for a pretty long time?!
Ladies, please tell me the truth. better to know than get a nasty shock. i don't think doctors will give me an honest answer!
Thank you!!
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Childbirth
tell me the truth please!
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izzzie · 24/01/2007 21:14
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