I'm 30 weeks with DC2 and beginning to freak out a bit about birth.
With DS, I was induced at 40+12. One dose of pessary, monitored for an hour, nothing happening, sent home. Contractions started a couple of hours later, and within half an hour I was having 8 contractions of about 30 secs each in 10 minutes. Labour was four hours in total. The problem is that when it came to the second stage, DS's heart rate was dipping with each contraction then, because contractions so close together, it had no recovery time, so was just getting lower and lower. Ended up with emergency forceps in delivery room, nasty internal tear, blood loss etc. DS was fine, and so was I, so it could have been a lot worse, but I'd rather avoid that kind of experience this time around.
The problem is, that when I spoke to the consultant after DS was born, she said there's absolutely no way of knowing whether the closely spaced/short contractions (and consequent 4 hour labour) were as a result of the induction or just how I labour. I'm a bit panicky in case it's just me, especially as second births tend to be shorter. I suppose what I'm worried about is having a repeat of the close contractions/dipping heart rate, but faster and with less time to get hospital/added complication of toddler. The result is that I feel far more apprehensive about birth this time around than I did first time. And it's not the giving birth that bothers me IYSWIM, it's the fear of things going wrong.
To cut a long story short: does anyone have a similar experience re birth the first time round, followed by a straightforward delivery in a timeframe that gave plenty of time to get to the hospital!
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If you first birth was induced and fast, what was your second like?
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FurryGiraffe · 09/03/2016 14:18
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