Would be interested to know how other MNers have dealt with this one.
Our 2nd baby is due at the beginning of December; dd will be 18 months by then. The problem is we can't quite work out what to do with dd if I go into labour in the middle of the night!
My mum is keen to come up and fab with dd, but lives 4-5 hours away and doesn't like driving at night, so if I go into labour at the right time of day it will be fine! (MIL is even further away and not in good health so can't help.)
We have a brother & SIL an hour away who have 3 children aged 6 months to 6 years. They both drive; SIL is a SAHM; but as they have 3 children at different stages their life is a bit complex.
We have a next-door-neighbour who loves dd, works part-time and has one older child. She may be able to help. There is also one of the staff at dd's nursery who lives near and has babysat in the past. I'd be less embarrassed about this as we would pay her.
None of my friends are in the area (as I work in another city) and we didn't go to antenatal classes so I don't have any support network from that.
If we can get my mother there in time it will be fine, it's just that asking anyone else would feel like too much of an imposition. Or should I just go ahead and ask on the grounds that desperate times call for desperate measures?
How have other people dealt with this? Has anyone not been able to have their dh with them in labour because they couldn't find childcare? (I am assuming the hospital's not going to let us bring her with us.) Should I get my mum up in advance? (If so, how early?)
Go on MN, sort my life out for me as usual
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So, what can we do with 18 month dd when I have my baby?!
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KathyDCLXVI · 24/10/2006 16:01
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