Hello! This is my first post so please be kind! I'm 11 weeks pregnant with our first child, totally unplanned but we're both very happy. My hubby is in the army and will be in Afghanistan from Sept of this year for at least 4 months, meaning he'll miss the birth and at least the first month of the baby's life. Does anyone have any advice about coping alone? I'm in an MOD house in Northern Ireland and family are in Wales and Manchester. Having the baby on the mainland isn't an option, but my parents will be coming over for the birth (assuming it's roughly on time). I'm not too concerned about being without him for the birth as I'm sure the baby will be motivation enough to get through it, it's more the first weeks and months alone that is scaring me. I'm a first time mum and have very little experience of babies. So I'll be muddling through as best I can. I'm also worried about husband and baby not bonding. Anyone have any ideas on how to make sure baby recognises hubby? Was thinking of recording his voice and/or plenty of Skype chats if he gets a decent connection over there. Any other thoughts? Sorry for the essay!
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