Hi im new to mn and was hoping someone else has or is going through what we're experiencing. I was taken into hospital for a routine laparotomy but ended up with a blood clo and pneumonia and nearly died. Whilst I was in hospital my ds wouldn't visit and told his dad that he had a s&d bug. When he went back to school he was refused by a teacher to go to the loo so he left the clasd room but soiled himself on way to loo. He rang me from loo hysterical and I got in touch with school and they sorted it no one was aware of this. He then sent me a txt the 2nd night I came out of hosp saying help me I cant do it. I went to talj to ds and he said he had an overwhelming fear that when he was away from us he wasnt safe and he wasbegging me not to send him to school. Took him to gp on the monday and he said the diarrhoea he was experiencing and the fear was being caused by a anxiety disorder. On the tues I couldn't get him to go to school he was crying and rocking and hadnt slept and had been to the loo loads. This went on fot about 2 weeks with me taking him to gps every 3 days. His excema then flared up really bad with huge sores in his head. I got a referal to cams. The school were good and when I managed to get him to school they put him in bridge where he spent all the time in the loo or crying. He even barrackaded himslf in the loos refusing to come out because if he did something bad would happen. We had to come and coax him out. I rang cams and they arranged a 1st appnt for week after. They have said that he has focussed on me being ill and the soiling at school has caused him to obsess over death and his stomach pains and runs are a result of this. They said he needed to be seen urgently but the gp also needed to rule out any physical reasons for the runs. He has now lost over half a stone spends his day ob and off the loo wont go out of yhe house even when we went to gp I had to reassure there was a loo. He was still like this over easter infact the need to go to the loo is even more frequent. Sunday night came and he was shaking he was sick he was rocking begging not to go to school. I treid from 6 am to get him up I eventually said he didnt have to go. Ive got another gp appnt tomorrow can I ask my gp to sign something to say he is mentally unable to go to school at moment. I'm at my wits end all his friends have deserted him hes really down and im worried as he has said he doesnt want to go on like this anymore. Any ideas anyone please. Thankyou sorry its so long vonny11
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Child mental health
13 yr old ds has started with severe anxiety disorder
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vonny11 · 29/04/2014 12:47
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