I am about to crack, my son has always been ridiculously hard work and as time has gone on, I have stumbled around and finally think I may know what is wrong - Aspergers. I mentioned this to pre school and the next day they had written out a list of the traits and ticked 6 out of nine of them.
His main trait that causes us huge problems as a family is his inflexibility, not as in a routine, but his whims, if things don't go as he expects them to (which is hard to predict) then his reactions are immediate and very strong. For example if its the wrong glass, or the water isn't filled to the right level (and once he is in this meltdown everything is wrong, whether it be saying the sky isnt blue if you get my drift)
He is very very intelligent with an amazing vocabulary, which actually makes this issue harder as he is a force to be reckoned with.
Basically today has been the worst day of my parenting carer so far. After pre school went to the park, a few of his little friends were there and all fine, he then wanted water and I had moved his beaker from his lunch box bag to normal bag and it unleashed a terrible tantrum. throwing things, screaming etc, I had to walk home with DD in stroller and him 3stone big 3.5 yr old) fighting me under my arm, or holding him on the buggy board and running. Once home tantrum continued for over an hour, he just screams and shouts, even if I hug him which he asks for) he complains its too tight etc. Then his little sister screams for hugs and its one huge screaming fest for my cuddles. he basically wore himself out and fell asleep at 4pm and is still asleep now (6pm).
Can anyone offer me advice of how the hell to cope, strategies etc
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Child mental health
HELP NEEDED! DS 3.5 poss Aspergers / huge inflexibility issues
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NourishingButtons · 11/04/2013 17:54
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