ITs a long story but my 9 yo ds has been bullied on an off for the past 4 years at school, his twin brother who has joined him in the class is now also a target. the school is absolutely useless at dealing with the problem and are very good at doing victim blame. On friday he was defending his twin brother in the changing room when about 5 of the boys laid into him. He came home with marks on his kneck where a child had 'strangled' him. Another poked his fingers into my ds's eyes. I am sending this email to the mother of the 'eyes' boy. I am emotional about it so I need some rational feedback.
Hi Sxxx,
I don’t know if Lxxx told you that there was a conflict between the boys again on Friday in the changing room after sports.
I don’t want to get into any discussion about what happened or which children were at fault, but I do want you to know that Lxxx stuck two of his fingers into Txxx’s eyes. If this was a one off I wouldn’t tell you about it but unfortunately Lxxx has done this several times to Txxx and I have decided to tell you because it is a very dangerous thing to do.
On the first occasion after Lxxx had stuck his fingers into Txxx’s eyes Txxx had a very nasty and persistent eye infection which needed strong antibiotics and cortisone to clear up – we didn’t mention it to you then because we didn’t expect Lxxx to do it again.
However we feel about the boys, the fighting and bullying that is going on in this class I think we would all be devastated if a child caused permanent damage to another. Sticking fingers into eyes could easily cause permanent damage to those eyes.
I expect you are not aware that Lxxx is doing this and I am sure you don’t feel very happy reading this email but I guess that Lxxx is not aware of how dangerous this is or what the consequences could be if he damaged another child’s eyes, so I feel obliged to tell you.
I would be happy if you did something to help prevent Lxxx from doing this again.
I wish you all the best.
Laura
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