My son was at a very small independent school until Christmas.He was subjected to the most awful bullying by three boys.He was beaten in the play ground under the nose of the staff who chose it ignore it.One of the boys mothers was spoken to was eventually spoken to when I insisted on it .It did not stop and she was spoken to on several more occasions.
The two other boys mothers were never spoken to(one has two sisters at the school so they didn't want to undercover I believe).We gave our notice to the school and started our terms notice in September.This was a hugh mistake.After one particularly bad beating by the three boys in which my son had to knock on the window for help.The headmaster told my son "There will be boys like this at all schools" he also told my son not to tell anyone about this.
I told the headmaster what I thought about his school as we were already leaving I never nothing would ever be done.The school has only 55 pupils and the children were allowed to behave as they wished as long as parents payed their fees.The school is family own with no board of governors.It had been issued a notice to improve by the is in 2014 parents were not made aware of this I know now they had an unannounced ofsted inspection in November which they failed.
My son left the school early and I taught him at home until after Christmas.During the holiday he told me of other events at the school.I spoke to social services ofsted and the isi.They would like to take matters further and I will do so as soon as my son is settled well in his new school.He is doing well now and beginning to make new friends.I an however finding it difficult to come to terms with failing my son to this place.His new school is light years ahead in all respects(the old school failed the children academically too I worked all along with my son and he is well ahead).
If anyone has any advise on how I can continue to support my son I would be very grateful as I know how this could effect him long term.
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How to support son after horrible bullying at school
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Dreamimgofmyholiday · 07/02/2016 22:21
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